There is no one-size-fits-all divorce. For some clients of Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell, the situation is complex, the parties involved can’t come to an agreement on how to move forward, and divorce litigation is the right choice. However, some couples can benefit greatly from mediation, or as it’s called in California, collaborative divorce. Here are a few of the benefits that could work for you. Read through and then contact us at (909) 920-0908 for your consultation.
Mediation is generally faster than the alternative
In most cases, the biggest benefit you’ll see to choosing mediation is the fact that it’s very fast. Instead of waiting for your case to get to the courts, and dealing with the numerous meetings and back and forth, a mediation is completed on your timeline and at your convenience.
It’s more affordable
The reality is that going through the court system costs money. Numerous meetings, many drafts of various custody and alimony agreements can get costly. On the other hand, a mediation is typically much more affordable. Note that we don’t recommend choosing your options based on this alone. After all, if you spend less on the divorce but property is not divided to your favor, then you may end up paying more in the long-run.
There’s less conflict
Most people think of divorces as long and bitter. It doesn’t have to be this way. Though some couples are to a point that the courts are their only option, if you and your spouse are still on speaking terms then you could greatly reduce the conflict between you by choosing mediation. It’s a truly non-confrontational option that allows you to resolve disagreements and it sets the stage for better communication in the future.
It’s more likely that agreements will be complied with
In mediation, both sides agree to all agreements. As a result, it stands to reason that most people are more likely to comply with an agreement they participated in versus an order from a judge. In our experience, the clients of Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell who come to agreements are more likely to stick by the provisions compared to those who have agreements mandated to them by the courts.
Some things can only be agreed to in mediation
Finally, consider that mediation offers you the chance to include extras or perks in support agreements that would be difficult or impossible to get a court to either order or enforce. For example, you might include a provision that parents will split the cost of future college tuition or housing costs for kids who are of legal age but still live at home.
Do you have questions about your options? Are you stuck and not sure what to do next? Call Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell today at (909) 920-0908 and set up your appointment. We can walk you through all your options to ensure you make the most informed choices for today and for your future.