In most cases, a temporary separation is going to eventually lead to a divorce. In some cases, a couple can live together while they go through with the divorce proceedings, but in many cases they can’t. If you’re considering separating from your husband, here are six things you need to know about child custody before you do so.

1. You need the advice of a family lawyer right away

Don’t wait to contact a family law attorney. The sooner you get an attorney, the better your experience is likely to be. Getting advice from an experience law firm like Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell can start your case off on the right foot. Trying to handle things on your own often leads to mistakes for those who aren’t familiar with the complications of family law.

2. Be wary of communicating with your spouse

Anytime you’re communicating in a way that can be documented – such as texting or emailing – remember that what you’re saying can be used in court. If you’re feeling particularly emotional, whether angry, sad, or lonely, it’s best not to text your spouse. Instead, text a friend or family member. When you’re feeling more level-headed, then you can reach out to your spouse for whatever you need.

3. Don’t allow yourself to be bullied

If you’re the one leaving, then you may feel guilty. This may lead you to want to allow the father of your children to make some of the decisions that you should be making. You want to do what’s in the best interest of your child. Your family law attorney can help ensure you’re on the right page.

4. Don’t make assumptions about what you’re required to do

In some cases, the father demands that his wife move out. Don’t assume that you’re required to do so. Even if he technically owns the house, even if you’re not officially married, there are options. The only want to know what your particular options are is to call Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell at (909) 920-0908 for a free case evaluation.

5. Remember that temporary support is an option

One of the most common reasons that women don’t move out is because they’re worried about their finances. The good news is that we can request temporary support, which may include spousal support, child support, or both.

6. Never represent yourself unless you absolutely have to

You may think that you can’t afford to hire an attorney but the truth is that you likely can’t afford not to. If you’re trying to represent yourself and going up against your husband’s attorney, the results could be a custody arrangement that breaks your heart, a loss of financial support, and other legal outcomes that you simply weren’t prepared for.

Today is the day to call Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell. We offer a free consultation so you can learn exactly what your options are and the best way for you to move forward in your unique situation.