Here at Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell, we’re always thinking about ways to serve our valued clients better. The dual focus of our firm is on family and business law in Southern California. Family and business issues deserve our full attention because outcomes of these cases impact Californians dramatically every day. If you’re having a family or business legal problem, the best choice for excellent legal advice and representation is Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell. Attorney Howell has decades of experience dealing with complicated legal issues, including child custody issues. Read on for some important considerations to make when thinking about child custody issues.

Try to keep things in perspective

Everyone knows that divorce can be complicated. Emotions run high, legal matters can get overwhelming, and the pain of separating from a partner can be tough to deal with at times. Depression is pretty common during a divorce, making matters even more difficult when all you want to do is crawl under your covers and stay there.

But something that can help is keeping in mind that nothing is permanent. Maybe you and your partner will decide to split today, but get back together a year from now. Maybe you’ll work out one custody and visitation agreement now, but amend it many times in the future. Try to take everything in stride and keep it in perspective. It’s not a life-or-death, permanent situation, though it can feel like the end of the world sometimes.

Talk it out as much as possible

When dealing with child custody issues, no one knows your kid(s) better than you and your former spouse. Only you both can truly know what’s best for him or her, so even though it’s hard to speak with your ex about anything when divorce is happening, try to swallow your pride (at least temporarily) and work out child custody and visitation agreements together. It will be much more likely that you will reach an decision you both can live it when you agree on it outside of the California court system. While a judge will try his or her absolute hardest to determine the best setup for the child’s best interests, the judge will still basically be a stranger to you and your family. Even if you can’t work things out on your own and petition the court to resolve your and your ex’s disagreements for you, the court may order you to mediation anyhow.

Avoid going to court—let Attorney Howell help

For the ideal outcome for the child and to save a boatload on legal fees, it’s best to attend mediation and work out child custody agreements outside of the court. We at Law Offices of Torrence L. Howell can help you with this—mediating between both parties and always looking out for your child’s best interests.

Attorney Howell has successfully helped divorcing couples reach agreements through mediation that didn’t seem possible previously, so make an appointment today to see how he can help your situation. He can also give you tailored legal advice about achieving a satisfying outcome in your specific case. Just call (909) 920-0908 or email info@torrencelhowelllaw.com to schedule a free initial consultation with Attorney Howell.